How To Show Regret In Korean (을 걸 그랬다)
The Korean grammar structure V + 을 걸 그랬다 is commonly used for self-reflection and is a way to express regret for not doing something one feels should have been done. This structure translates to ‘I regret not doing something I should have done’.
It’s important to note that 그랬다 can be omitted without altering the meaning.
Grammar Rule: Verb + 을 걸 그랬다
Examples of 을 걸 그랬다 in sentences
Let’s explore how this grammar is applied in various contexts:
If I'd known the weather was this bad, I would have brought my umbrella (but I didn't).
I should have learned Korean earlier (but I didn't).
If I'd known you were coming I would have prepared something to eat (but I didn't know, so I didn't prepare).
Expressing Regret for actions taken
By adding 지 마 before the main verb, the meaning shifts to express regret for an action taken:
I shouldn't have asked (but I did).
I shouldn't have stayed up late last night (but I did).
I shouldn't have drunk so much beer (but I did).
Using it in question form
The question form of this structure, replacing 그랬다 with 그랬나?, is used for reflective inquiries:
Should I have come here earlier? (Am I late?)
Should I have worn a suit? (Am I underdressed?)
Should I have spoken to him?
Conclusion
The 을 걸 그랬다 construction in Korean is a nuanced way to express regret about missed actions or mistaken actions.
Understanding this structure can enhance your ability to express complex emotions and reflections in Korean.